Maybe it’s the thoughtful meals he puts together for you while you’re still in bed, or the spontaneous gifts he gives you for no reason at all, or maybe it’s the way he adores you like the most important factor in his life. Regardless of what it is, this man surely deserves to know that he is loved and appreciated.
At this juncture, it’s important to know your husband’s love language and speak it to him. For example, if his love language is acts of service, mere words will not suffice. Study your man to know what he best responds to and give him just that. However, this is not to say that there’s no room for creativity.
Certainly not!
Check out 6 ways you can make your husband feel special…
#1. Brag about him to people when he can hear
If you want your husband to swell with pride like an inflated balloon, then sing his praises to your friends, loved ones, and to whom it may concern. He will conquer the world and lay it at your feet.
The male ego is something women will never understand. No wonder the saying goes “men are from Mars and women are from Venus.” Love to many men is wrapped up in a form of respect, give him that and it would automatically translate to love. This is one sure way to make your husband feel special.
They say “the way to a man’s heart is through his stomach” even if your husband is not a foodie, he will appreciate his favorite meal waiting for him at the end of a busy day.
Where your treasure is, there will your heart be also. It is a fallacy to claim to love a person and withhold giving to them. This type of gift doesn’t find it’s worth in the currency spent but the thoughtfulness.
We all know that couple who always fight because the man loves watching sports in his spare time. Yes, we undeniably do. Try showing interest in his hobbies or respect him enough and give him space to enjoy them without nagging or complaining. He’ll be thrilled and when next he hangs out with his boys, he would brag about you and they’ll listen in awe and admiration.
Sometimes, your gestures go unappreciated not because your husband is self-absorbed or hard to please, but because you’re not loving him his way. Take the time to ask him the things that would make him feel loved by you. It’ll surprise you how simple they are and he’s not asking for the milky way galaxy.
It’s really in the little things.
When it’s all said and done, home is where the heart is. You have forever with the love of your life, keep exhausting your options.